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>>34865694
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>>34868403
Peter/Jean isn't gonna happen. 15 years from now, when Hugh Jackman is finally too old to play Wolverine, they will have one last X-Men movie where Jean and Scott finally have a baby and it will have adult Josh Brolin's head transposed onto it.
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>>34868411
I don’t either, that’s why I replied to her.
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>>34868409
>Peter and Jean is so sauceless.
Kishimoto actually helped with the movie and made Peter and Jean's dynamic closer to Nardo and Sauce
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>>34868409
There's nothing to Michelle Jones other than she's played by Zendaya
Like they even took her tomboyish energy away from homecoming
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Women would you date a man who puts the same sauces and spices on everything so it all tastes the same

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How can I make money renting GPUs in the cloud?
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>>34867803
It angers me man. We've got these motherfucking magic machines just sitting there and I don't have a fucking way to take advantage of them and make fucking profit.
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>>34859944
Donald...
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>>34867781
Look at the little girl, she's dangling both feet, she's amused, she's enjoying the tactile sensation of rubber pads touching her smooth skin. That reaction is what's called fun, seeing her enjoying it makes it funny.
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>>34859880
>starts kicking their feet around the neck area
Hmm
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>>34868237
>their
She and who else?

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There's a bunch of fucking mosquitos in my house.

How the fuck do I kill them all?
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>>34868179
Install a bug net on your window, you can get cheap ones and you'll only need a pair of scissors, thank me later
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>>34868319
Dude, my windows were never even fucking open. I keep them closed for the AC.
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>>34868348
Then squash the mosquitos and find where they came from, they don't exactly teleport into ones room
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>>34868368
that's like trying to find a black cat in a dark room

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How do I get rid of this dumb one sided crush I have on a co worker. I know it would never work out and I’m tired of getting swept up in these feelings every time we’re on the same shift
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>>34868292
Ask her out, and tell her what you love about life.

See if you still have a crush after she shows how uncomfortable she is with you or your stories and tells you she would rather talk about friends she finds hot, and you see her eyes beaming from thinking of people who are not you.

If you don't ask her out you will never get over it.

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At this point I wish I met the diagnosis criteria for some trauma bullshit then I at least wouldn't feel so pathetic about how dumb I am, damn.
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im really opening up to the idea of suicide. death isnt as scary as people think it is. this one guy i used to talk to said he just never thinks about it cause it makes him anxious. i used to feel the same way but now im almost a little excited for it. idk.
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>>34868306
Ya I mean it's the final thrill, the final experience. You really think you've lived all there is? Or just sad, bored with life? What's your deal
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>>34868353
a million small things adding up i guess. i dont think i'll ever have the life i want and am very afraid of trying, its easier just to leave
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it's over.

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Hi.I’ve been alone since I was very young, and it’s weighing heavily on my mind. My parents didn't care for me much and were more focused on their work, and I never manadged to make friends. I’m extremely introvert / shy and nervous around people. There’s nothing special about me to make me stand out—I’m not attractive, and I have no talents. So, during middle and high school, I started spending all my time online. I was so starved for attention that I would obsess over even the slightest interaction with others in a really unhealthy way. Even when it involved mockery or bullying,since I was desperate for any kind of attention, i was actually happy to get hit; I’d even touch myself at night while thinking about it. I am underweight and self-harmed; cutting myself used to turn me on, though it would leave me feeling nauseous and suicidal afterward. I stopped doing it, which only made me even more miserable. Even online, I can never seem to hold onto "friendships" for long. I’m 18 now and don't know what to do with my life—or even if I should go on living. I feel like I’m done for. Should I honestly just end it all? Do I have any chance of changing or finding a job in my condition?
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>>34868097
>another personal insult without argument
I rest my case.
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>>34868088
>>34868097
You're both losers. Get a life.

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When i was 18 i was basically given a huge opportunity and i blew it. My grandparents offered to pay for my college and even i was studying a pretty shit major (art) for the amount of support i was given but i was given support none the less. I then when it came time to i just had no faith in myself i cheated my freshman year to the point i got kicked out of my major in my school all together by sophmore year and my grandparents no longer payed for my college and i dont live with them anymore. Present day, i havent been to college since spring of 2023 and i basically just gave up on college and im currently unemployed trying to get employed at warehouses to even get any luck to have any money in my account. Am i a fucking joke?
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yes, you are a joke. a pretty unfunny and uninteresting joke at that.
any more questions?
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>>34867406
This is cope, although could be true a few decades from now
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>>34867405
23, studying art feels like a complete joke to me so I’d rather study something dealing with sciences. Im not even sure if I want to do medical stuff.
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>>34867382
that was alot to read but I feel for you OP I graduated at the end of 2020 and never got to walk the isle and to ad a shit cherry ontop of it I wasn't able to find a job in my field.

Love the Image OP posted not sure the name of the artist but I like the artstyle. Its a Shame the Steven U fandom is ruined by its fans.

Lesbians would be super cool if they weren't constantly shitting on men with their blatant misandry.
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>>34868300
What did you study for?

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How do I follow modern things? It all looks like shit to me now, but I used to like to share experiences with people and it's easiest to do that with things when they're new.
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Bump

Anons, I was sitting alone in the campus using my phone. There were some chairs in front of me that were also facing me. Two girls sat at those chairs and started talking. When they first sat I could say they were looking at each other, but if they didn't tilt their heads they would be looking at me. After some I hear:
>hii (said by girl A)
>hiii, look to your front (said by girl B)
(I was looking down, but if I looked to the front I would face them)
I didn't even took my eyes off the cellphone. I felt a mix of anxiety and uncomfort and BTFO of there.
What did they meant?
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>>34868263
They never existed. The voices were inside your head all the time.

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Get it off your chest: how would you rate your hygiene? What’s your hygiene score?

Rate yourself 0–10:

0 — Never shower, never wash, don't care
1 — Never clean, just cover it with deodorant
2 — Rarely shower / barely clean
3 — Occasionally shower, inconsistent hygiene
4 — Below average, skips basic hygiene
5 — Average hygiene
6 — Usually clean, showers regularly
7 — Good hygiene, rarely skips anything
8 — Very clean and well-groomed
9 — Extremely clean, always fresh
10 — Hygiene god, absolutely spotless

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Somewhere between 7 and 8. Give me an argument for why I shouldn't kill myself.
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>>34868027
I honestly feel blackmailed OUT of suicide. I want to kill myself and if I had it my way, and the people around me weren't there, I'd probably beeline right to it. Existence is Chinese water torture for the fucking soul with no respite.
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>>34868048
Seriously what offers anything when one is in this state? How do people cope? I can't stave off this fucking frustration.
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>>34868056
Same. I don't know the answer, as soon as nobody needs my support i will be walking into the woods with my shotgun.
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High 7/low 8. I shower daily, apply/reapply deodorant/perfume as needed. Nails trimmed/clean underneath. Body hair groomed well.

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What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam

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>>34863611
Open your door and say grrr chica to your neighbor, goth girl.
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I'm 25 and go to a law school right now, which is on the same campus as the undergrad. Would it be weird for me to try to get a girlfriend from the undergrad population?

And if not, how should I go about getting a girl? Basically the only overlap I have now is at the gym, but otherwise there are very few events (besides sports I suppose) where I could organically meet people.
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I'm going on a second date with this girl she's not really my type but I want to fuck or become FWB or something. Is there a good way to do this without seeming like an asshole or ruining my chances?

I was thinking maybe just being honest like "I'm not really looking for a relationship now but I think your cute" or some shit or should I just be "like down to fuck?" I don't know if I'm handsome enough for that
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How the fuck do I know if I'm making eye contact when they're all always wearing sunglasses?
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Be your fun self not this success story the baby boomer generation threw on you that you feel you need to adhere to because your crush wants a man who has a life.

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On discord it’s better
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What hentai and why do you want to talk about it why not just fap and be done with it you loud asswipe

As for finding females, soc is one place to find online ones, idk just anywhere you go to find online "friends" there will be some of the foid gender. Vrchat for example
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>>34868259
what is soc?
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>>34868274
Shadow of Chernobyl
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what the fuck is this cringe

Is a young hoe phase worth the thrill?

22 and no friends since 2024 besides the usual people I see at work but it's nothing. Virgin, no 1st kiss. Not because I am ugly, I just chose not to, the whole dedication/cheating thing freaks me out so I don't bother with keeping a conversation with a man unless he shows me he knows how to love properly.

No teen life. No life in my 20s. In the middle of sacrificing my time for who I want to become in the future. All of a sudden I'm seeing my type everywhere. And I've realised I'm no better than a single horny man. I stare at men my type like they are just meat. Kind of afraid of randomly landing on the internet though.

I have my eye on a single 37year old but damn is he too social and everyone's best friend. So, next.

Not looking forward to sex. Maybe just making out and foreplay dry humping. Kind of feeling overly freaky as heck these days. My head hurts from imagining porn all day.
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>>34865551
>And if my value will increase if I save all my orgasms
yeah, i suppose there are people who genuinely find value in that, but personally i can't find literally any reason to justify this logic.
I would say the most important part is that "the one' doesn't exist. I'm merely in my thirties and i have already felt love towards maybe 10 people. There is no limit to how many people you can genuinely love throughout your life. The christians try to convince you otherwise, but there is no rationale provided.
Now obviously, you can only give your virginity to the first of these people. But the others will appreciate you just as much. I have never slept with a virgin and it doesn't bother me at all. The deep connection and fun i've had with my lovers is far beyond enough. And it's nice that they already know how to please a partner in sex and not just lie flat waiting until i do all the job
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>>34866089
I see....okay I'm getting new perspectives.

What would swoop you off your feet anon?
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>>34865992
But there are plays that don't involve the dihh right? I can think of so many that could arouse the same way. Not nearly as intimate but still give a nice high
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>>34867593
hmm
somebody respectful of the world, the people and their own mental health, so that we can safely do psychedelics together and explore the deep corners of cognition.
somebody with sparks in their eyes while they talk about something that fascinates them
and of course it's nice if they are also hot
this person must necessarily not be emotionally broken, so we can form a healthy bond without some bullshit like them being triggered by me touching them sexually (had that happen once. she was absolutely perfect and we were this close to become one of these legendary couples. but we can only ever be friends, romance just doesn't work).
then there are important but not crucial parts, like being touchy and cuddly and sympathetic and just nice

that's just off the top of my head, maybe i'm missing something. but don't torture yourself into finding the most perfect person on earth before committing. remember that your own value increases with experience. you want to become a good partner as well. Without experiencing the dynamic situations of living together with somebody, you will never learn your weaknesses, pet peeves, issues, whatever. In a sense, having previous less successful relationships is a gift for your future partner. Just find somebody compassionate and caring, that's totally enough
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>>34867679
Totally get it.

THANK YOU.

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For context: I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue.

Here are some specific things I feel UNHAPPY about.

>UK censoring internet, banning SM/phones, etc., rest of world likely joining in
>Love & Deepspace scandal
>Google banning sideloading
>recent HiAnime arrest
>I fucking hate both US parties - one is full of self-hating whites and brown supremacists, the other is full of self-hating browns and white supremacists - but "doing nothing" and being a drone is cuckery too; my politics would prob. better align w/ "Dems 20 years ago" than "GOP any stage of their recent history", but even outside a US context many countries nowadays have cucked uniparties
>car-dependent suburbs and their consequences (and I'm not even going to pretend that's an American-only thing)
>the impossibility of affording anything for anyone, esp. relative to even our parents or even MILLENNIALS
>goals becoming unrealizable, like the fucked up dating market makes it impossible to date anyone (and "return to tradition" to like courting, etc. I disdain for the same reason I disdain the anti-phone movement), or travel feeling increasingly unmotivating
>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.
>the climate getting worse (lmao ik)
>the US declining, and actually fr rather than as some larper fantasy

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>>34692908
Has anyone ever replied to OP’s actual question?
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Wish I could kill this thread the same way how I want to kill myself
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>>34692908
kill yourself
im not sugarcouting you
just do it
all ends in death
just kill yourself
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>>34867866
I stand corrected.

I was posting via mobile and did not see replies

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>be me
>loser, a disappointment to everyone around me
>laid off 2.5 years ago
>seriously contemplated ending my life
>browsing some obscure forum about a hobby I have
>make a friend by making a very niche inside joke only they understood
>we spend weeks chatting on discord everyday
>one day they mention they wfh and it would be easier to voice call
>sure i said, im unemployed nothing better to do
>mfw its a girl
>don't try to make it weird, continue chatting like normal
>we spend months talking over the phone, about everything
>eventually we start face timing, most beautiful girl I've ever seen
>fall in love
>literally spend 5 hours a day talking on facetime

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>>34863228
No one plans life and know how they will be feeling tomorrow.
>She should have told me everything and explained it to me.
1. Like another anon wisely told you, women are non-confrontational.
2. This requires a level of foresight and emotional maturity that most humans simply do not have.
Also read my other reply >>34863218
It's time to move on.
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You have to track her down and confront her in person. She destroyed your life and must answer for it.
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>>34863228
Happened to me too bro, but you gotta stop being such a weakling and move on!
Retardmaxx! No thoughts, just doings. Do a deadlift and you'll feel alive afterwards. Too scared of what others may say at the gym? Buy your own plates and bars, it will also force you to work out when you have the dumbbells in front of you to remind you that you have to grow strong. Out of sight, out of mind, so keep those dumbbells and plates in sight!
Listen to some good music too, not that sissy rock shit full of muh sad emotions, listen to something like " A Mind Is Born (256 bytes) ", " PULSAR (1990) " or " FairLight & Genesis Project - The Hat (C64 Demo) ", and you might actually want to watch the animations since they're pretty dope. Old tech that plays music is really awesome stuff, especially since those old systems cannot even load a full 1280x960 16bit image without taking a year and a half to do so lol.
Anyways, see people for what they are, reject them and move on to higher goals in life, like making a cool demo for the Commodore 64! :D
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>>34863172
Im sorry it happened to you, anon. But know that if it didn't work out in this reality, so for all intents and purposes there is no reality where it could've worked out
And now that she isn't in your life, she's no longer and might as well never happened. The ghosting was on her, she probably met someone local, knew you wouldnt take it well and was too cowardly to be upfront about it

Find someone irl, you dodged a bullet, the US sucks
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>>34863172
It wasn’t exactly the same experience, but I also fell in love with a girl I met on social media; the thing is, she didn’t share my feelings. I clung to the idea that we’d become a couple, only for her to reject me outright later on. I let go of the fantasy that we were soulmates, cut off all contact with her, and moved on. It was never meant to be. Although she was incredibly attractive, she was also overwhelmingly boring. The only topics of conversation she ever brought up were mental health and cannabis—literally. The only advice I can give you is to put those experiences behind you and find ways to meet more people and get out into the real world. Long-distance relationships don’t usually work out, and it’s much better to meet girls in your local area than to fall head over heels for the charms of Discord’s 'e-girls.'

Pray that you find the love of your life and don’t lose hope. Good luck.


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